also any advice on how to make friends? i work a different schedule then most people. i also had a lot of my friends move and are off at college. i work. but it’s mainly with older folks. it’s also seems harder too cause a lot of people are in different points in life as well. anyways. any tips. advice. thoughts. thanks (:
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mistycloudsunset
haven’t posted here in a while. i’ve been trying to focus on myself. trying to find hobbies. keep myself busy. i got into coloring. i’m trying to relax my mind. focus on that instead of everything else. trying to get back into journaling so i figured i would hop on here too. i’m trying to not overload myself and take one step at a time. but it’s hard not to be impatient. i’m putting in the work. i want instant results, but sadly life doesn’t work that way. it’s been an adjustment. but it’s been good lately. i’m looking forward to only getting better from here.
@drivebyfruiting
My mom is so sad and scared. She cant find work for over a year now and I see the red late /disconnect notices on some bills. She tries to be happy and fine in front of me but I know what’s going on. I wish I could help. I hope Im not a burden.
FastCarsAndFootball
Pretty sure my girl is cheating on me. I got injured and am no longer the popular athlete since I can’t play. Been a rough year already.
NoRagrets
Every day in every way – be kind. Even if the world is not kind to you. That way you go to bed at night with no regrets and wake up every day with your character intact. It’s not the easiest way to live but it is worth it.
sunnysideup
So much I feel and can’t get out. So much hurt and disbelief. I can’t talk to my family. They are privileged to not care about the little things. I can’t stop feeling empty and feeling the weight of the world …. The sadness. The absolute departure from hope and joy and good things to come. I hurt for the animals and the planet. For those who keep getting told no when they work harder and smarter and better and with integrity. The lack of morality and integrity is just a tough place. Because you cannot pretend to go backwards. Once you know something. You cannot un-know it. Awarenes is not your friend when a horrible experience is what you’re left with. It feels like disbelief and despair. I wish I could just get it out so I would feel better. But it seems this one is gonna leave a mark and sit with me for a while. I hold the door open for others. It’s a safe place to just be and say what is on your heart.
mistycloudsunset
i am really struggling with a break up. it wasn’t mutual. it ended suddenly. i wanted to try and work it out but they showed no interest in returning my phone calls. the only thing we’ve discussed is meeting to swap our things. i feel like a fool cause we had our issues, but i wanted to work them out and i was just ignored. then given excuses. the actions did not meet what was trying to say. it’s been not even a week yet, so it’s still newish & i am trying to rely on my friends, but everyone schedules are different, we all live in different areas, they aren’t always able to catch up or chit chat (and i totally understand). i’m just not sure how to handle this. i’m not super close with my family, we aren’t a very emotional group. i know im not alone, i know i have people in my corner but i feel alone sometimes. especially when i go home at night and im alone in my thoughts. any advice, tips, anything would be appreciated.
DogsCatsLivin2gether
Trying hard not to lose family over politics. It feels like more than politics at this point.
sunnysideup
Happy Friday ! This is for whoever needs to hear this!
As a human in this world, you deserve time for yourself. You do not need to earn this. You are worthy of time ,space and care intrinsically. Have a great day !
insidejob
I find it hard to just get back to normal when I have been glued to the weather channel for weeks it seems , only to worry about all those people, animals , and nature that are affected by this horrific weather…. and even though it did not affect me , I feel it so deeply? I need to just get away from the news , maybe? Normally , I don’t spend any time with all of that .. but just trying to regulate myself since this stress has been obviously increased ! hope you’re all doing well out there and if you ‘re affected by the storms, know that we are all thinking of you…